Perception is Reality



People do judge people by their covers.
  I have noticed a distinct difference in how I am treated when I am in my "uniform" or "costume" (suit and tie) as opposed to my jeans, t-shirt, and ball cap.

Suits and ties are what are expected of me by my clients, like a white coat for a doctor, or a blue uniform by a police officer.  I am often mistaken for an attorney.  The thing is I am treated like someone that should pay more and is afraid to get his hands dirty.  The fact is, I am a big DIYer.  I wear disposable glove to keep paint, oil, grease off my hands . . .

On the other hand, in my regular clothes, I get treated like a regular guy and talked to on a more "real" level.  I am perceived as capable of using tools and equipment . . . same person, different treatment.

All this said, I guess the takeaway is be conscious of this tendency in yourself and others to judge people by appearances only.  I will add you can use this to you advantage by dressing the "part" you need to play-- would you go car shopping in a suit or in jeans and a t-shirt?  Who will probably pay too much?  Think about it.

 

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  • 10/31/2008 9:36 AM Clair Schwan of Frugal Living Freedom wrote:
    Absolutely. There is really no such thing as reality, there is only perception. We all view things through our beliefs and experiences that change the truth that we see.

    And that changes our behavior and expectations, and what we will accept.

    Dress like a hayseed and you can disarm people. Walk in like you own the place and you do. Carry a clip board and somehow you're official. Wear a uniform and a badge and you can order people around.

    We are so programmed into expectations. This is both good and bad. The big problem is that our programming often keeps us from thinking and acting "outside of the box" and so we become a follower instead of a leader.

    If we're going to be successful in our financial lives, we must be a leader for ourselves and others. We must think and act and live "outside of the box" every day.

    Clair
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